Redglyph
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The important thing is to be comfortable with a distro, I think.I did run freebsd for about 12 years - and it was kind of a pia (and costly since they were so anti-eide - this was in the mid 90's to mid 2000's - around the time Apple purchased Jordan. I was working for a company that did stuff in linux (2000-2020); so at some point i got tired of dealing with freebsd package manager and switched to linux - well specicifically ubuntu - after trying 5 or 6 different distributions (fedora, and a few others) and that is where i've been since - of course when ubuntu added zfs ready packages that sealed the cake as i was tired of building custom kernels with zfs. ZFS is really fantastic - not as good as netapp's top secret filesystem but close but this is another topic (and of course fantastic, good, ... are based off of my critera which might be contradictory to yours; but either way even today brts is a pile of horse radish waiting for you to skinny dip esp if you run raid of any sort).
I've tried a few again these last few weeks, including FreeBSD for comparison to Linux. It doesn't feel as mature, despite being rooted in the first Unix making it out of the post-Bell Labs business world. But it's normal, since Linux must have a lot more contributors. His current package manager is OK, but I haven't had to live with it for a long time.
My favourite distribution remains Manjaro, but other distributions also based on Arch come close (I'll have to test CachyOS on hardware to see if its optimized scheduling really pays off). Fedora caused me a lot of headaches, especially during the installation, and later, when I had to circumvent some issues with desktop environments. I've messed with Alpine, too, and it wasn't always easy, but I think it's more a niche distribution for containers and embedded systems anyway. Definitely more lightweight, but you have to post-install a lot of basic stuff.
I suppose you meant BTRFS? It has its uses, but I wouldn't use it without a good reason. ZFS seems great, but I heard it's a memory hog, and its legitimacy in the context of Canonical's Ubuntu is contested, I think.