I see why that is frustrating, and it's why I personally prefer when games give you as many choices as possible so everyone can find their niche within the same game. For example, offer extensive character creation, different difficulties, or even choice between TB and RTwP. Everyone pays the same price for the game, so everyone deserves to have a similar experience. Sadly this is utopic and only a few studios can actually afford it, and not everyone will be satisfied, anyway.
And then the issue arises when some people don't want others to have choice, they want the game to be as they prefer, and fuck everyone else because if it's not something I care about, then it doesn't matter (don't look further than BG3, people bitching about how necessary it is to allow choosing genitalia/pronouns/voiceset that don't match their preferences, all companions being romanceable by the main character regardless of their gender, or the arbitrary "too many resources spent" on anything they don't care about because we all know every random person has the sole right to decide what resources are spent on what, as if everything in a game had to be optimized to please them alone and nobody else).
I can tell you for instance that I'd much prefer if Ciri was the main character of The Witcher 3 - I'd probably have enjoyed the game much better. I just can't get into the manly macho batman-voiced womanizer attitude of Geralt, but there isn't anything I can do about that, I can just accept the Witcher 3 is a great game that I don't get to enjoy as much as others do. What would be utterly stupid is if I started suggesting in threads about the game that CDProjekt has a White Power/Supremacy agenda and they're racist studio because of how blatant and brutal racism is in the Witcher's 3 setting, and that's exactly a lot of what I see around this "black samurai" thing, which I find both childish and distasteful.
Games are meant to be enjoyable, I wouldn't overthink it. I try to enjoy the game, and if it doesn't work, that's too bad. There's always another game.