My personal wish in all games is to have a working "jack-of-all-trades", and therefore I kind of despise min-maxing because it forces me to play a character the way I don't want to. Or, in other words, rather the developer force me to do that often in games, because otherwise these games are not winnable.
This was a thing I hated when I was playing BG1, didn't know the rules, and suddenly ran into a glass wall. I never looked back.
Playing a "jack-of-all-trades" is most resonating with my own inner philosophy, and I'm not at all a "power guy". The male theme of "getting into power" and become the most powerful being there is, this is something I cannot resonate with at all.
Which could mean that in this current world is is a strong theme - also put forward by developers who mainly develop for men - and being a man is nowadays (or always, maybe it's an patriarchate thing) = to be competitive, and to crush everyone else, like I've seen it in SWTOR PvP.
Being a "jack-of-all-trades" is often considered to be inferior, because = not powerful. I think that a (A)D&D Bard, who is such a sort of character - would be considered socially inferior compared to other classes because = not powerful. Like Diplomnacy being considered as "weak" and "inferior" by Gangstas with guns and with gold chains around their necks.
From that PC Gamer article :
When you're making choices for your character for min-maxing reasons, you're not making choices for narrative reasons.
Who cares about any narrative ? These days, games are more to educate men in a manly world of how to become competitive - by doing "the right coices" - and become unstoppable = accumulaste wealth. No Gangsta-wannabe needs a so-called "narrative".
You may well have wanted to be a Red Wizard of Thay just because they look cool as hell, but if you wanted that fun narrative flavour, you had to math it out first.
(A)D&D = Math Fest.
Most other RPGs are Math Festivals as well. Everyone good in that will profit considerably. Everyone having a Dyscalculia will have to uninstall any (A)D&D game at one point. Serious.y, I think ( I do have a slight Dyscalculia, and I uninstalled BG1 and never played BG2 because of that ).