When it comes to the video game mentality, how about dumbing down the main unit of measure to "squares", as if players cannot comprehend that one square is 5'? Shardminds?? Fuckin lame. It's stuff like that which helps to turn a bad taste in the mouth to utter dislike.
I'm sorry, 4E tries to take the power away from the DM as much as possible and make a bunch of nigh-invincible video game characters plowing thru monsters as easily and efficiently as possible. The only thing missing is being able to hotkey your at will/encounter/daily powers.