I agree Dark Souls fans and TW3 fans do seem similarly fanatical
As for Skyrim, yes, loot and rewards are important (duh!) - but the most important thing that you keep ignoring is finding unique content and stories when you go freeroaming - and especially dungeon delving. I do love me some dungeons in my fantasy RPGs. Weird, right?
As for opinions beings subjective, that's very true.
But I really do believe there's a monumental difference between having a subjective opinion and then having the ability to be objective about games you enjoy or dislike.
For instance, I really dislike Dark Souls - but I'm having an easy time understanding what people like about it, and I can see the great aspects of it.
I can also see some terrible aspects of Bethesda games - and I can acknowledge them without feeling I'm betraying the pleasure I've had playing them.
That said, I've only really liked Skyrim and FO3 from Bethesda. I never really cared for Daggerfall, Redguard, Battlespire, Morrowind and Oblivion. I did have some fun with Arena and the Terminator games. I hated that car game they made, though.
But only Skyrim and FO3 have been what I would consider great games. FO3 had terrible writing, crappy balance and mediocre mechanics, awkward animations, lots of repetitive content and so-so visuals. Skyrim had terrible balance, mediocre writing and a lot of repetitive content.
As for TW3 being "quality over quantity" - that's a joke to me, but maybe that's because I actually went to all of those PoIs and noticed how repetitive they all were
I feel like all games have major flaws. I don't think there's a conflict there because you both love and hate them.
But that's just me.
Apparently, TW3 has only minor or insignificant flaws to a lot of people. I think that's insanely generous - but what do I know.
Ultimately, I think the difference is that I can recognise TRULY great things about The Witcher 3 and TRULY bad things about Skyrim (or whatever games I happen to love).
Seems to me that's not quite true the other way around