My first post to that thread was full of tact and carefully chosen words. I'm still waiting to hear one single person say why it was otherwise. The only person to even quote one part of it was joxer, who said the use of a number was insulting, which is pretty darn arbitrary and wasn't the intended reason the word's placement. All I got was insults, just flat-out insults. Yes, the poster appeared depressed, but the poster did not express any form of actual tragedy, and even admitted that they were likely looking for just a bit of attention, and in such circumstances, yes, one would expect a more light-hearted approach to the answer. The fact that all it takes is some to say they are 'a bit depressed' and everyone has to act like a good friend died is exactly the kind of crazy-man over-reactions that is more stifling than productive.
I felt my post contained sincerity, meaning, experience, knowledge and, yes, a touch of freakin' humour, the ripper comes in and "oh my god how can you say such a thing, you monster, just shut up and fuck off", you know, twisting the message out of all proportion before nyx can even get a chance to make an independent judgement. Oh yeah, but, of course, it's then my bad that everyone else starts kicking the crap out of me for trying to help. You say use more tact? What does that even mean, for me and my world and the people I know, just spewing generic "Awww, let mummy kiss it better, mwa mwa mwa" saccharine slop is like saying "I don't really give a shit, but, here, have a copy paste response off the front of a get well card". Like you say, interpretation.
I'm sorry, but you can't get much more random that "Shut up and fuck off lackblogger" after you've just composed a particularly great post, you cannot get any more random or uncalled for than that. Well, maybe when couchpotato just calls you an asshole I guess. As someone who likes facts over hyperbole, I'd like you to provide an example of when I've suddenly jumped at someone's throwt in an unprovoked and non-conversational and purely insultary way, just so I can know what it is you're referring to here.